no!

Because they see you as an object to help them, not you as a person however flawed:

agenda

 

"sorry to disappoint you"

"Life is too short to hang around people who aren't making you better, who aren't pushing you forward."
- @JoelOsteen

modus operandi

"All standups are innately insecure. Who would stand on a stage by themselves and say: 'Laugh!' 'Laugh with me!' 'Laugh at me!' 'I don't care: Just laugh!' They're all very damaged. They need that reassurance; it's all a cover."
- Melissa Rivers